It can be perceived that purpose of Non-violent Communication (NVC) is,
To communicate with others in ways which would appear gentle, nice, polite or kind
Or, using NVC 4 steps, or NVC process, or NVC method to help you get what you want
But please hold on,
As these and many others could be limited understanding about purpose of Non violent Communication (NVC), It is important to understand purpose of NVC.
Purpose of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) (developed by Dr Marshall Rosenberg) is to create a quality of connection from which 'Natural Giving' is made possible.
Natural Giving is a kind of giving where people can contribute towards each other or each others needs from the joy of giving, Like a little child feeding a hungry duck,
Without Force or Demands,
WIthout Punishments or Rewards,
Without Shame or Guilt induction
NVC shines the light of consciousness (focus) where we can hope to find what we are seeking, which is on our needs. The focus, communication and processes of NVC improve the chances of getting our needs met, but single mindedness of purpose of trying to get what we want is not the primary purpose of Non-violent Communication, but to create a connection which then would see that we take steps towards needs fulfillment, but in life-serving ways (than potentially life-alienating or disconnecting ways)